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"It’s taboo to admit that you’re lonely. You can make jokes about it, of course. You can tell people..."

iloveebreakfast — Wed, 19 Jun 2013 03:08:30 -0400

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It’s taboo to admit that you’re lonely. You can make jokes about it, of course. You can tell people that you spend most of your time with Netflix or that you haven’t left the house today and you might not even go outside tomorrow. Ha ha, funny. But rarely do you ever tell people about the true depths of your loneliness, about how you feel more and more alienated from your friends each passing day and you’re not sure how to fix it. It seems like everyone is just better at living than you are.

A part of you knew this was going to happen. Growing up, you just had this feeling that you wouldn’t transition well to adult life, that you’d fall right through the cracks. And look at you now. La di da, it’s happening.

Your mother, your father, your grandparents: they all look at you like you’re some prized jewel and they tell you over and over again just how lucky you are to be young and have your whole life ahead of you. “Getting old ain’t for sissies,” your father tells you wearily.

You wish they’d stop saying these things to you because all it does is fill you with guilt and panic. All it does is remind you of how much you’re not taking advantage of your youth.

You want to kiss all kinds of different people, you want to wake up in a stranger’s bed maybe once or twice just to see if it feels good to feel nothing, you want to have a group of friends that feels like a tribe, a bonafide family. You want to go from one place to the next constantly and have your weekends feel like one long epic day. You want to dance to stupid music in your stupid room and have a nice job that doesn’t get in the way of living your life too much. You want to be less scared, less anxious, and more willing. Because if you’re closed off now, you can only imagine what you’ll be like later.

Every day you vow to change some aspect of your life and every day you fail. At this point, you’re starting to question your own power as a human being. As of right now, your fears have you beat. They’re the ones that are holding your twenties hostage.

Stop thinking that everyone is having more sex than you, that everyone has more friends than you, that everyone out is having more fun than you. Not because it’s not true (it might be!) but because that kind of thinking leaves you frozen. You’ve already spent enough time feeling like you’re stuck, like you’re watching your life fall through you like a fast dissolve and you’re unable to hold on to anything.

I don’t know if you ever get better. I don’t know if a person can just wake up one day and decide to be an active participant in their life. I’d like to think so. I’d like to think that people get better each and every day but that’s not really true. People get worse and it’s their stories that end up getting forgotten because we can’t stand an unhappy ending. The sick have to get better. Our normalcy depends upon it.

You have to value yourself. You have to want great things for your life. This sort of shit doesn’t happen overnight but it can and will happen if you want it.

Do you want it bad enough? Does the fear of being filled with regret in your thirties trump your fear of living today?

We shall see.

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- You’re Not Making The Most Of Your 20s by Ryan O’Connell (via beautifulanonymous)

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iloveebreakfast — Wed, 19 Jun 2013 02:55:21 -0400

encsunshineeee: jazzlesthecat: 18 years. Robin thicke and his...

iloveebreakfast — Wed, 19 Jun 2013 02:54:01 -0400

encsunshineeee:

jazzlesthecat:

18 years. Robin thicke and his wife together since they were 14; they were each others “first everything.”

Take that you non-believers

This is so beautiful.

oh-deir: ACTUAL MESSAGE OF (500) DAYS OF SUMMER THAT NO ONE...

iloveebreakfast — Thu, 13 Jun 2013 03:02:46 -0400

oh-deir:

ACTUAL MESSAGE OF (500) DAYS OF SUMMER THAT NO ONE ACTUALLY REALIZES

scales-are-for-fish: ❁

iloveebreakfast — Wed, 12 Jun 2013 18:10:08 -0400

scales-are-for-fish:

❁

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iloveebreakfast — Wed, 12 Jun 2013 18:07:20 -0400

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iloveebreakfast — Wed, 12 Jun 2013 18:06:17 -0400

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iloveebreakfast — Wed, 12 Jun 2013 18:03:37 -0400

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iloveebreakfast — Wed, 12 Jun 2013 18:02:17 -0400

nickiyuuup: People are far too concerned with the sexual orientation of people they aren’t having...

iloveebreakfast — Tue, 11 Jun 2013 05:46:50 -0400

nickiyuuup:

People are far too concerned with the sexual orientation of people they aren’t having sex with.

kushandwizdom: EVERYTHING POSITIVE

iloveebreakfast — Tue, 11 Jun 2013 01:08:30 -0400

kushandwizdom:

EVERYTHING POSITIVE

heavymetallecturemonster: someone explain to me how parents can scream at you until you’re crying...

iloveebreakfast — Mon, 10 Jun 2013 16:40:04 -0400

heavymetallecturemonster:

someone explain to me how parents can scream at you until you’re crying and then act like nothing happened 20 minutes later

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iloveebreakfast — Mon, 10 Jun 2013 16:39:58 -0400

fierrrrrrce: http://fierrrrrrce.tumblr.com/

iloveebreakfast — Mon, 10 Jun 2013 16:39:52 -0400

fierrrrrrce:

http://fierrrrrrce.tumblr.com/

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iloveebreakfast — Mon, 10 Jun 2013 07:59:48 -0400

vanweyden: fuck-yourprettyface-6661: shizznizzle: kissmyskittl...

iloveebreakfast — Mon, 10 Jun 2013 07:57:46 -0400

vanweyden:

fuck-yourprettyface-6661:

shizznizzle:

kissmyskittles:

10 Things Your Dog Would Tell You..

My life is likely to last 10 to 15 years. Any separation from you will be painful: remember that before you get me.

Give me time to understand what you want of me.

Place your trust in me- it is crucial to my well being.

Do not be angry at me for long, and do not lock me up as punishment.

You have your work, your entertainment,and your friends. I only have you.

Talk to me sometimes. Even if I don’t understands your words, I understand your voice when it is speaking to me.

Be aware that how ever you treat me, I will never forget.

Remember before you hit me that I have teeth that could easily hurt you, but I choose not to bite you because I love you.

Before you scold me for being uncooperative,obstinate,or lazy, ask yourself if something might be bothering me. Perhaps I might not be getting the right food, or I have been out too long, or my heart is getting to old and weak.

Take care of me when I get old; you too will grow old. Go with me on difficult journeys. Never say: “I cannot bear to watch” or “Let it happen in my absence.” Everything is easier for me if you are there, even my death.

OH MY GOD NO

Fucking post makes me cry every time

starfish-are-stickers: you know what’s fucking worse than NO pockets? fucking FAKE POCKETS THE FUCK...

iloveebreakfast — Mon, 10 Jun 2013 07:56:52 -0400

starfish-are-stickers:

you know what’s fucking worse than NO pockets?

fucking FAKE POCKETS

THE FUCK IS THAT SHIT

angeshoesnyc: I’ve been to the west coast many times, mostly to...

iloveebreakfast — Mon, 10 Jun 2013 07:45:54 -0400

the Ferry Building

Coit Tower

Alamo Square

Dandelion Chocolate shop

enjoying tart from Tartine at Mission Dolores park

Cable Car ride at Union Square

Mint Mojito Coffee

Wine tasting at Frog's Leap in Napa

Max and Mia, two cuties I met in Napa

angeshoesnyc:

I’ve been to the west coast many times, mostly to visit my extended family in Los Angeles. Although I loved that there were so many beautiful beaches, I couldn’t get on board with the fact that you had to drive everywhere. If people were happier on the west coast, I certainly couldn’t tell from the inside of a car, stuck in an endless traffic jam.

Then a few weeks ago, I visited a friend in San Francisco. The weather was perfect - sunny and cool. No humidity. There were actually people walking around! You could be in a hipster area chilling on mellow vibes one minute, and the next you can be in the middle of the Financial District. I swear at one point, I thought I was just having a really good day in Brooklyn.

I was hopelessly falling for SF, and it didn’t help that my friend was the ultimate tour guide. She even had an itinerary! We went to the Off the Grid Picnic at Presidio, to check out the Painted Ladies at Alamo Square, and to the ridiculously serene Palace of Fine Arts.

And the food!! The coffee!!!

Some of the places I can remember off the top of my head:

Delicious mexican food at La Taqueria

Venezuelan chocolate at Dandelion Chocolate (try the ginger lemon cold chocolate!!)

Mint Mojito Ice Coffee at Philz Coffee

Brunch at Mission Beach Cafe

Lemon creme tart at Tartine - to die for

Custom tea blends at Leland Tea (Earl grey lovers need to try the “Paris”)

I also happened to be in town for the Carnaval, so the streets were filled with music for the better part of a lovely Sunday.

And just when I thought I couldn’t fall any more in love with the town, we went for a short trip to neighboring Napa Valley for some wine-tastings.

After a few glasses of wine (and being spoiled for days by my friend’s amazing itinerary) I really began to wonder how anyone could ever be stressed out in San Francisco. I even rethought my devotion to New York City. Don’t get me wrong, I’ll always love New York. But there’s something about SF… she’s a special one.

Must be some kind of West Coast thing. ;)

hi hello if you’re reading this i hope something good happens to you today

iloveebreakfast — Mon, 10 Jun 2013 07:40:37 -0400

hi hello if you’re reading this i hope something good happens to you today

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iloveebreakfast — Mon, 10 Jun 2013 05:55:51 -0400